Här är frågorna jag besvarade en kille från tidningen i Danmark. Han är ju en journalist så mycket kommer säkert ändras haha. Förhoppningsvis lite av mina stavfel i engelskan.... Eller mina cp uttryck haha. JAJA....
Ingen får mobba min engelska och mina stavfel. Vissa sker faktiskt för jag skriver fort... Bara säger ;)
1 How should a guy approach you in the bar?
He can walk over to me and ask if I would like to join him for a drink. If he starts with the bullshit like ”you’re looking really sexy" I would ignore him. Because then he would only have presented himself as horny.Last weekend a guy came up and said "I have been watching you all evening, you are really sexy, do you have boyfriend?"
Then I looked up at him and looked into his eyes to try to see what he was after. After a few seconds I replied "yes, unfortunately. " So he went. I started laughing. Was he serious? If I would think a guy was nice, I wolud still talk to him even if he has a girlfriend. I will not marry him ... or kiss him..?
2 What is a good pick-up-line? Give an example
To Make Contact with a drunk Swedish girl is very easy. But to a sober one it could be a problem. . Most of the girls are very shy and don’t know how to have a conversation with a random guy. But hopefully they would be shining, because you just don’t see a Swedish girl sober on vacation. You could say “I love the way you dance, can I join you?” “Would you mind if I tell you how beautiful you look” “Girl what’s the deal for tonight, you want to go to another club?” Maybe say something in Swedish if you can, that would make the girl think that you have a interest for her country, and herself. Something I really like is when a guy by me a drink and then don’t hang around me all night. That makes him elusive, and girls love that.
3 Is it an advantage or disadvantage if the guy has a (thick) danish accent?
I think it is a advantage. I love the Danish accent! But with other girls it depends on what kind of girl you meet. If she is shy and look strange to you, then it's just bulking wrong with her?
I mean, what do you do in Denmark if you expect him to talk anything else? Bitch go home...
4 What kinda drink should he offer you?
For Swedish girls it is important to drink champagne. I think it's ridiculous. You’re not "cool " here if you don’t drink it.. In Sweden is Champagne very "nice" which makes girls more interested in you. Because then you presents yourself as a guy with money. Buy a bottle.
5 Is it good or bad if the guy is drunk?
Swedish girls are drinking so much that she will not understand if you are drunk or sober. She will either push you away or be as in love, depending on how her alcohol has affected her. The next day she will say "it was worth it" and laugh helplessly.
6 Would you think it was cute if he offered to be your tourist-guide?
If he offers to be my tourist-guide I would think that’s very cute. Because then he gives me the feeling that he wants to see me again, maybe in the sunset without the alcohol.
He shows confidenceand basically asks if I want to go on a date. It can make girls blush and feel better about the guy.
7 Are girls from your country generally open to extremely flirting guys?
If guys are too flirty, there is a high chance that the girls reject them, you should flirt but with a calmness and confidence, the girls think is sexy. Patting them on the back instead of trying to hug them.
8 What should a guy talk about with you if you were to find him interesting?
I would never care about what he's working with or how much money he has. That to me is not important.
I think that might work on many other Swedish girls. A guy should just not talk too much about himself. Talk about her and remember the conversation. I would be interested in a guy who is interested in me. If he starts asking me questions other than where I'm going later and witch club I like the best, then I would like him. A question like "Have you had a good holiday so far?" "How will you spend the rest of the week, maybe we can hang out?"
Take the girls on the shoulder and say a compliment, after you say,"what do you want from the bar" have a drink and continue the conversation.
9 Are you normally open to holiday flings?
I personally am very special in terms of flirting on holiday. I do not let any guy get too close to me. Maybe go to dinner with a guy one night for fun's sake. I did it actually last summer and we got to know each other. He thought I was cute and friendly. We ate dinner at a restaurant by the sea, it could not be more like a date haha. We actually kissed, but his tongue was like sandpaper. He did not want any more from me without a friend to talk to. I liked that. We are still friends.
10Which is the best place for a guy to approach you? Bar/street/cafe/discoteque/touristattractions etc. Bar is probably the easiest. Cafe is charming, on the street they get us to feel a bit slutty
11How do girls from your country feel about one-night-stands?
Many Swedish girls go on holiday together to party and meet guys. And make sure that everyone will have sex. Of course we can go out and have fun, but we Swedes are too much quantity before quality. I think it's sad behavior from the Swedish girls. Many are horny and happy after all the alcohol. The evening might end badly. I get a lot of 'party eyes' on me when I say that I'm Swedish. I don't like it. 90% of us have sex on holiday with the boys. And will probably come home with the disease, or leave it, haha. All people should of course partying and having fun. But we party a little bit harder than we should. On a negative terms. But can easily maintain many other cultures positively
12 How far would you go the first night?
I would never sleep with a guy on holiday that I've never met before. It's different if he is a friend of a friend of mine. It would have calmed me down and maybe then I would go behind close doors with this guy, if he is handsome and charming and makes me interested. I think it's pathetic to have sex with several pieces during the holidays .. . Unbelievable. It's probably supposed to see it as a fun thing. But if that's the only thing that can be fun, people should find itself a new interest. Sex is wonderful but I would rather find a hottie that I like and maybe have sex with him a bright day instead? But still a bit doubtful.
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